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I can’t keep quiet anymore. I lost my mum sister to abusive marriage because she was left to struggle and care for her children alone while her husband was doing fine boy all along and carrying woman even till now this February making 6years of her demise. She begged to live but high blood pressure and liver damage no be your mate. I have started developing HBP too because I need to stay in marriage. I got married at 26+ without courtship never knew I was marrying a lazy man. I was doing well when he met me, so I taught I could wage any challenge but trying to fix him up I was going down and he is 7years older. Firstly I bought keke napep after much training for months he still couldn’t handle it na so so accident call I dey receive it was so tiring so we decide to give it out, the story long but to cut it short.

St. Valentine’s Day, celebrated annually on February 14, is a day that has evolved from its origins as a Christian feast day honoring a martyr named Valentine into a significant cultural celebration of romance and love across the globe. The traditions associated with this day are deeply rooted in both historical events and folklore, making it a fascinating subject for exploration.   The Legend of St. Valentine   The history surrounding St. Valentine is somewhat enigmatic, with multiple accounts of different saints named Valentine who were martyred. The most widely recognized story involves Saint Valentine of Rome, a priest during the third century under Emperor Claudius II. According to legend, Claudius believed that single men made better soldiers than those with families; thus, he outlawed marriage for young men. Defying this decree, Valentine continued to perform secret marriages for couples in love.   When his actions were discovered, he was arrested and u...

Infidelity can be devastating to any relationship, leaving emotional scars and trust issues. No one wants to suspect that their partner is cheating, but ignoring the signs can lead to further emotional pain and damage.  Recognizing the potential signs of infidelity can address the problem early on and potentially save your relationship. 1. Change in communication:   You and your partner were communicating very well, but suddenly the other person becomes secretive, distant, avoids conversation, or becomes If you and your partner have been communicating very well, and suddenly your partner becomes secretive, distant, avoidant of conversation, or overly defensive, this may be cause for concern. However, such a change should be significant and out of the ordinary for your partner. 2. Unexplained absences or lack of communication:   Frequent “business trips,” “training,” or “errands” without a clear explanation should be cause for concern. Your loved one may not be as availabl...

Most of us will admit to telling the occasional little white lie. But in reality, more than one in three of us tell at least one lie every day. And it turns out that the more women lie, the more they lie.  One study found that a shocking four out of five women lie on a daily basis. Some women lie as many as 30 times a day. That compares to two out of five men who said they tend to lie every day.  Fortunately, the situation is not as bleak as the statistics imply. People said they avoid telling the truth mainly to avoid hurting other people's feelings. The biggest reason for lying was “to make someone feel better” (55%). Next was “to stay out of trouble” (32%), and one in four said it was because “life is complicated.” To prove a point” and ‘to save face’ were also common reasons for avoiding the truth.  To inform young people, I tell the news like rap music - Joshua Gapsiso0:00 / 0:00 In a poll commissioned by the insurance company Privilege, about 2,000 people were quest...

Not long ago, my wife of almost 20 years went to a friend's birthday party. Parties like the one she attended are more of a “girls' night out” kind of thing, so I don't usually go with her.  Anyway, a few days later, one of her friends let slip that my wife had really gone off the deep end at the party. My wife has a bad drinking habit, and apparently there was a lot of booze available at that party, so she must have drank more than her limit.  Anyway, my wife ended up kissing a rather young man at that party and eventually they were both caught being intimate in the bathroom!  When I confronted my wife about it, she looked really frightened. My wife said she was really drunk and didn't know when she had gotten together with a strange man.  She said she had never done anything like that before in her life and promised it would never happen again. She completely destroyed my self-esteem with her indiscretion and my marriage was violated. Is there anything I can do to ...

I've been married close to 4 years now with a 2 year old boy, but marriage isn't what I envisioned it to be. Like the said, if marriage was renewable every 5 years, I wouldn't even bother. I feel like I'm losing myself to this thing called marriage, aside from the responsibilities that comes with providing, the mental and psychological stress. I've never been this stressed in my life and I'm someone who's usually able to handle a lot of stress, I just feel like I need time alone from everything and everyone, no calls, no text. Nothing. And my wife even makes it worse with threats of leaving the marriage over any small issue. I think the biggest mistake of my life is getting married and I know a lot go men go through this to but they can't talk.  And that's why a lot of men die young these days.

Adultery is often in the news and loyalty seems scarce. These are men who are trustworthy, faithful, and committed. These men do not sneak around or make their partners feel insecure.  Why are these men trustworthy?  Based on the insights of relationship experts, here are five types of men who are less likely to cheat.  Emotional and Intelligent  Men Emotional and intelligent men understand their own emotions and are able to connect with their partner's emotions. They openly discuss trust and commitment and handle conflict with care and understanding.  Why is this important? Emotional intelligence allows a man to communicate clearly, empathize, and manage his emotions effectively.  He understands how infidelity hurts his partner and can avoid it. If your partner listens to your feelings and responds with understanding, he is likely to be faithful.  The Self-Aware Gentleman  The self-aware man reflects on his actions and knows his strengths and wea...

I'm 19 years old and have just enrolled in a polytechnic.  I enjoy my studies very much, but I have a crush on one of the instructors.  He is in his 40's and very sexy. I get excited every time I attend a lecture with him.  I get very shy when he comes up to me in class.  He is usually very loud, but during his class he is very quiet.  I am sure he knows something is wrong.  This is the reason why I am not able to concentrate on my studies.  Please advise me...….

Since giving birth to my son last year, I have gained weight and have lost confidence in myself.  I even hate taking my clothes off in front of my husband.  As a result, our life (living in separate rooms) has slowed down.  He always tells me I am beautiful and attractive regardless of my weight.  But I don't believe him.  I can tell he is frustrated and we have been arguing more.  Please help me before my marriage falls apart! What's your advice?

My new girl is always acting scared and strange whenever I make move towards having sex with her.  This girl has shown that she really loves me but she is always afraid of sex with me.  When we first met it took up to a month before she agreed to come to my house.  When she visited, she sat on a chair a placed outside of my door post, I have to quote an epistle of sweet sermons before she agreed to enter inside my room. She even carried the chair with her to my room because there is no chair in my room I regret keeping that chair close to door.  The day she visited first she refused to sit on my bed, she just sat close to my door and gisted with me, I went to sit with her on the chair, kissed her and pressed her breasts, then I tried to carry her like a baby to my bed she screamed and bit my arm. Omo I am starting to get frustrated; from my observations my girl is not the wild type, but I know she is not a virgin. The funny thing is the moment we left my ...

A post on social media by a young Nigerian lady has left viewers buzzing after showing her custom-made nails featuring her boyfriend’s face.  The gesture is a unique show of love that has never been seen before.  In a viral video, the lady proudly showed off the custom nail art, leaving netizens divided in opinions.  While some online users praised her creativity and dedication to love, others said the gesture was too extreme. “This is next-level romance,” one user commented, while another joked, “Hope she has a backup plan if things go south!”